I would like to point out that to any straight people who might be worried about the comments of others in this thread that those comments are jokes, and should not be taken seriously. The running joke within TTF is that there has always been more Gay members on meets that straight members, but I think it has come close to a 50/50 split these days.
I would also suggest that if some of those comments had been said the other way around, that they might of been considered homophobic. I know the people saying it are just joking, and don't mean it in a nasty way, but if those comments were the other way around, and somebody read them (its very hard to tell when someone is joking or not being serious on the forum), they could take offence and be put off from attending the meet.
TTF is one of the most welcoming communities I know, and you should feel comfortable attending the meets as the person you are, and you do not need to worry what others will think of you, or feel that you will be judged or people will try to change you.